Wedding Tips: Right or Wrong?
When you marry, you are making a decision to choose happiness in your life over being “right” in an argument with your loved one.
To make a marriage work, you need to give in on the little things that don’t matter, even when you think you’re right or even when you are right. Being “right” in most arguments where emotions are involved just doesn’t mean much in the long run.
Have you ever considered the pointlessness of discussing anything with anyone who is not listening to you? If someone is emotionally not ready to hear you, then no matter how logical your position on something, the other person just is not going to hear you. If winning an argument means battering down the emotional resistance, you are not winning by the force of your logic, but by force alone.
When you “win” an argument, your ego remains intact. But you just weakened the love for you that your partner has for you in her heart in order to do so. Was it worth it?
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