Wedding Tips: Doing chores without being asked
I frequently do stuff ahead of being asked. This doesn't stop me being asked to do more! But it does help if you get into a routine of doing certain chores and then your partner does the other chores. For example I as a man will always do the washing up, my wife will do the cooking, we take turns driving the kids around to nursery, dressing and changing them and other activities or both go together so we are doing things together.
One of the main reasons couples fight is conflict over who is doing what around the house. Chores and child care are not the sole responsibility of your wife. She shouldn't have to ask you to do your share around the house.
Read more about doing your share of chores in the home for a happier marriage.